Skip the Mashed, go with Scalloped

By Steph Farrar

You might be thinking, well this is a little late. Wasn't Thanksgiving last week? Why didn't I know about this recipe like 10 days ago? That way I could've skipped mashing all those damn potatoes. Don't fret. I'm cooking Christmas dinner for our entire family this year, and this scalloped potato dish will reign. I still have three weeks to plan the menu, but there is no way I'd leave this recipe out.

My herbs of choice

For as long as I've lived in Los Angeles, my outrageously talented and gorgeous girlfriends have gotten together for an annual potluck Holiday party and gift exchange. Two years ago I brought this dish which was literally destroyed within minutes of counter touch-down. It is not light; it is not vegan; it is not anything other than savory perfection. And I challenge you to either complement your mashed potatoes with this recipe, or completely substitute.

Cut before thinly sliced

This year, I am hosting the gal party at our new(ish) house for Sunday brunch. It's a first; in lieu of a debaucherous, wine guzzling white elephant evening, we'll be taking down mimosas and lining up at an over-the-top Bloody Mary bar, while indulging in Joan's on Third ham and dauphinoise ficeles. My kids will be at their grandparents house for the afternoon, and I will be toasty by 3 pm. Let's get into the Holiday spirit as a team, guys.

This potato casserole always reminds me of my girlfriends and the comical memory of them stuffing their faces around a glorious Christmas tree at Meghan's then new house. I hope this memory stays with me forever and reminds me of a time when everything felt right in my world. One of those excellent, and thankfully not rare, moments where it's all good.

I'm in denial it's already December. Still trying to backtrack to the distant memory of Thanksgiving, and birthdays, and babies born, and date nights without early mornings to follow. Still trying to hold on to the past and all it brings to the present table. Still looking ahead at things to come and people to meet and grow with, new memories to make. All while staring at my wrinkling, dry hands typing at a vacant coffee shop, getting older with each sip of my cappuccino.

This is how we do

I never announced this year what I'm thankful for around our hectic Thanksgiving table. As you might expect, second to family, I am insanely grateful for my girlfriends. For how they enrich my life, and more importantly, how each of us is making a difference in the world. Making and taking steps to help our daughters and sons (and ourselves) grow up in a time and place where they completely and totally have a voice. A world where we are teaching them to look up (from their phones), pay attention, and speak up. A world that will one day, hopefully, not be quite so scary.

I do what I do for one reason. To gather around a table and share a meal with people I love and respect is truly all I need to feel fulfilled, joyful, and content.

Let's take care of each other. And gather.

Herb Scalloped Potatoes

100% stolen from Epicurious

Ingredients:

• 1 1/2 pounds medium Yukon Gold potatoes

• 1 1/2 pounds medium red-skinned sweet potatoes

• 2 cups heavy whipping cream

• 1/4 cup (1/2 stick) butter, or just use the whole damn thing

• 2-3 garlic cloves, minced

• 1 tbsp minced fresh Italian parsley

• 1 tbsp minced fresh rosemary

• 1 tbsp minced fresh sage

• 1 tbsp minced fresh thyme

• 1 1/2 tsp fine sea salt

• 3/4 tsp freshly ground black pepper

• 1 1/4 cups (packed) coarsely grated Gruyére cheese (about 5 ounces)

Directions:

Fill large bowl with cold water. Working with 1 Yukon Gold potato at a time, peel, then cut or mandolin slice into 1/8-inch-thick rounds and place in bowl with water. Repeat with sweet potatoes. Combine cream, butter, and garlic in medium saucepan; bring to simmer. Remove from heat. Mix all herbs in small bowl. Mix sea salt and black pepper in another small bowl.

Butter a medium to large baking dish (glass is best). Drain potatoes, then pat dry with kitchen towels. Transfer half of potatoes to prepared baking dish. Use hands to distribute and spread evenly. Sprinkle with half of salt-pepper mixture, then half of herb mixture. Sprinkle with half of cheese. Repeat with remaining potatoes, salt-pepper mixture, herb mixture, and cheese. Pour cream mixture over gratin, pressing lightly to submerge potato mixture as much as possible. DO AHEAD: Can be made 6 hours ahead. Cover with plastic wrap and chill. Remove plastic wrap before baking.

Preheat oven to 400°F. Cover gratin tightly with foil. Bake 30 minutes. Uncover; bake until top of gratin is golden and most of liquid is absorbed, about 25 minutes longer. Let stand 10 minutes; serve.

Complete!

Not Really Pesto, Pesto

By Steph Farrar

So I'm currently car-less at home in a rain storm (not sad about it at all), writing a post, breastfeeding a baby, filing my nails and catching up on True Detective and Sara Bareilles on Jimmy Fallon's Tonight Show. To say the least, moms can seriously multitask.

Since the birth of our little man, my life has been a series of very predictable cycles. Babies do cry, but they cry for only five reasons: hunger, discomfort, gassiness, exhaustion, and a need to burp. That's it. All I've been doing is figuring out which cry is which, following his schedule and making him happy. After 6 weeks on this earth, he's finally speaking clearly to me. I think I've got it.

I managed to get a shot of our kids BOTH smiling! Granted, this only lasted the duration of the six shot photo series.

They are both HAPPY!!!

Anyway, onto food. And not really pesto, pesto.

During any down time carved out during Flynn's naps and while Vesper is at school, I've been trying a few new things, one being this herb-nut topping. I've made pesto several different ways, but never this combination, and I generally use a food processor, not a mortar and pestle.

Almonds, walnuts, cilantro, mint, spicy red onion

This time I found a recipe in Fine Cooking for an herb-nut topping on Arctic Char served with roasted carrots. A no-need-to-clean-an-appliance pesto recipe. Perfect. It immediately caught my eye.

Since I'm living on someone else's feeding schedule, I've found the last thing I consider is what to feed myself. I certainly wish my waistline proved that, but I did just have a baby six weeks ago, so I'm giving myself a little slack. We've had a steady trail of incredible friends visiting with food and extra arms to hold the baby or entertain Vesper, but that tends to slow down by the second month. So chicken, tuna and egg salad have become mainstays in our fridge, prepped food for grabbing on-the-go. This herb-topping / pesto is the perfect addition to pretty much anything. A slice of warm toast, a salmon filet, rotisserie chicken, even mixed in with fresh zucchini noodles.

Instead of using the food processor or blender, just add it all to a mortar and pestle and combine until you reach your desired consistency. I prefer a little chunkier for my warm toast tapenade, but as a pesto, keep on grinding.

In zucchini noodle land, speaking of, I just made the best dinner of all time with said "noodles." That recipe coming next. As soon as I get through this next sleep cycle.

Enjoy!

Herb-Nut Topping

Adapted directly from Fine cooking

Ingredients:

• 1/4 cup toasted, finely chopped almonds

• 1/4 cup toasted, finely chopped walnuts

• 1/4 cup finely chopped fresh cilantro

• 3 Tbs. finely chopped red onion

• 2-1/2 Tbs. extra-virgin olive oil

• 2 Tbs. finely chopped fresh flat-leaf parsley (I didn't use, cause I didn't have)

• 2 Tbs. finely chopped fresh mint

• 1/8 tsp. crushed red pepper flakes

• Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper

Directions:

Literally, put it all in a mortar and pestle and combine until you reach desired consistency.